Does making eye contact work? Well.. the question you might consider asking is.. how do I make proper eye contact?

If executed perfectly… it’ll beat any other method of breaking the ice… but if you fail in this area, you might as well leave the lady alone; worse still… get labeled as some freaky psychotic maniac.
So… here are some Do’s and Don’ts:

Do’s
1) Keep it casual. Don’t appear too serious
2) Stay cool and fun. Look at her, and when she looks at you… look away.
2) Smile. If she smiles back… you are in the game! Most of the time if steps 1 and 2 are done correctly, she’ll smile back.

Don’ts
1) Stare - That’s bad. You don’t want to appear like you are stalking her.
2) Undress her with your eyes.
3) focus on her boobs.
4) Try to lick your lips with your tongue or try to look too sexy (unless you look like Brad Pitt)

Basically, making eye contact should be fun and a good indicator to see if the girl is interested in even talking with you. If she is not… why bother embarrassing yourself by approaching her and getting turned down right?

Remember, it’s 50% body language, 40% in the tone of your voice and 10% words when it comes to communicating face to face.

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is. From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then. What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself. Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D

Love is in the air - For all the romantics out there…. you may fancy this romantic umbrella. Why not right? For better or worse! Sunshine or rain! ; D

I think it will make a pretty good Valentines present…

Plain White T’s frontman Tom Higginson wrote this ode to Columbia University steeplechase runner Delilah DiCrescenzo (pic above). There was never a relationship between Tom Higgenson and DiCrescenzo, but Tom was inspired to write a song about her soon after they were introduced by a mutual friend.

It took over a year for Tom to write the song. However, the real life Delilah, was not interested in Tom because she was already in a relationship.

Awww… that’s so sweet!! My gf would be more than happy if I could write a song for her
Anyway, here’s the song and the lyric. Enjoy!

Hey there Delilah
What’s it like in New York City?
I’m a thousand miles away
But girl tonight you look so pretty
Yes you do
Times Square can’t shine as bright as you
I swear it’s true

Hey there Delilah
Don’t you worry about the distance
I’m right there if you get lonely
Give this song another listen
Close your eyes
Listen to my voice it’s my disguise
I’m by your side

Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
What you do to me

Hey there Delilah
I know times are getting hard
But just believe me girl
Someday I’ll pay the bills with this guitar
We’ll have it good
We’ll have the life we knew we would
My word is good

Hey there Delilah
I’ve got so much left to say
If every simple song I wrote to you
Would take your breath away
I’d write it all
Even more in love with me you’d fall
We’d have it all

Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me

A thousand miles seems pretty far
But they’ve got planes and trains and cars
I’d walk to you if I had no other way
Our friends would all make fun of us
and we’ll just laugh along because we know
That none of them have felt this way
Delilah I can promise you
That by the time we get through
The world will never ever be the same
And you’re to blame

Hey there Delilah
You be good and don’t you miss me
Two more years and you’ll be done with school
And I’ll be making history like I do
You’ll know it’s all because of you
We can do whatever we want to
Hey there Delilah here’s to you
This ones for you

Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
What you do to me.