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Dating Tips: Some Facts about Dating (Part 1)

Author: justints

15 Nov

It’s been awhile since I last posted on this field. I was watching “Hitch” the movie just the other day and I truly recommend you people to watch it (if you haven’t watched it). Here are a few things that I notice about dating.

Fact #1: Dating is a skill.

It doesn’t matter how fit/ good looking/ smart/ rich you are. It’s a skill that gets the “players” laid.They’ve been rejected again and again, time over time till they pick up all the essential skills needed for getting the girls they want.

Fact #2: Confidence is the key to getting your girl.

Just like in the movie… Will Smith was very confident. And he was very smooth (Fact #1: Dating is a skill). Confidence comes from knowledge. KNOW your girl and KNOW what to do. I’m sure you have read that getting girls is like marketing and one of the key ingredients is market research. Why? So that you know your girl and you know whatare her likes and dislikes.

Fact #3: Do things you’ve never done before to get things you’ve never had before.

This applies to almost everything in life. If you continue doing the things you do… you’llcontinue attracting the same type of women. So step out of that comfort zone and dosomething new!

I guess that would be all for now. Go watch Hitch if you haven’t watched it yet!! It is a MUST watch. ; )

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is. From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then. What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself. Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D

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Dating Girls: Teasing

Author: justints

18 Sep

If you are with a girl and you like her… then tease her. Simple as that!!! How???

–> Be playful. Make fun of her a little.

–> Arouse her sexually then pull back.

Don’t be just plain nice to her and DO NOT throw yourself at her. Girls don’t like guys who suck up to them. This seems easy yet so many guys fail to do it simply because they adore and worship the girl way too much.

Fancy your girl but just don’t over do it. Send her mixed signals. Women love mind games.

Let them know that you love them and you leave yourself in the hands of rejection. You take a risk by confessing when you are not sure of how the girl feels. Instead… keep her guessing. Let her wonder if you are really into her.

Even while making out, play hard-to-get a little. This would probably get her even more worked up and then you make your move to the next base.

Oh well.. that’s another story all together. I guess the key here is to have fun. Play around a little and enjoy each other’s company. Good luck guys!!!

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is. From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then. What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself. Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D

Picture from mop.com

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Dating Tips: CHEESY Pickup Lines

Author: justints

23 Aug

My guy friends tend to ask for some sure-to-work pickup lines that will seduce the women of their dreams. I think pickup lines can work but not in the way most people see it. It is not some magical word used to get the girl all aroused. It is simply a conversation opener. It is part of the tools to get women.

In order for your pickup lines to work… here are a few things that I would strongly recommend you guys to have a check list on:

BEFORE - Prepare you and the girl you intend to approach. Meaning… don’t just pop up and release your pickup line on her. In other words… do a “silent pickup line” first, ie eye contact. If she doesn’t want to even look at you… then forget it. No miracle line can save you.

DURING - Approach her slowly. Speak confidently and clearly. Maintain a good posture. Don’t move around like a monkey while talking to her. Just compliment her on something… anything… and introduce yourself with a handshake. Try to be as original as you can. Why?? Because.. chances are.. if that girl you are after is hot/ cute… 10,000 other guys would have probably used that line on her and you’d just sound like another loser using it on her. ; P

AFTER - Don’t just keep quiet after you compliment her and all. Start some small talk and ask her questions. Small open ended questions. It’ll get the ball rolling. Before she knows it… you’d already be talking to her and perhaps getting her phone number.

Just remember… it’s not only WHAT you say… but HOW you say it. Good luck guys!!!!

Girl in picutre: Brooke Burke