• Has a woman ever said she just wants to be friends?
• Have you ever been so “nice” to an attractive girl that you find it difficult to say “NO” to her?
• Have you ever complimented a girl only to have her looking not interested or annoyed?
• Have you had hot looking girls coming to you and whine about their “loser” boyfriends?

If your answers to any one of these questions is yes… well… she DOESN’T respect you!! It sucks to know that but it is TRUE!! More importantly….. Women are only attracted to guys they RESPECT.

We can buy her all the diamonds and pearls, be her shoulder to cry on and give her everything “nice” but at the end of the day.. she’ll not end up with you. Just like men don’t respect women that are too easy, women don’t respect men that are too “nice”.

So how do we gain respect from a member of the opposite sex?

• Independence and self-reliance. Don’t be a “clingy” person. I learnt that the very hard way. ; P Same applies if your girl calls you 10 times a day, every day… every week… every month…
• Have a backbone and stop letting them walk all over you.

How do we do it???

• Learn how to say “NO”… in a calm manner. E.g.: “No, I don’t want to wait for you to call me 2 hours before the show to see if you are going.
  If you can’t make it, let me know now so that I can make other plans or go with someone else!”
• Don’t Be Too Nice: Stop buying her all those expensive things. She’s going to see you more as a friend instead of a potential lover.
• Be Prepared To leave: If you are not getting what you want from the relationship - LEAVE!
• Plan Out Dates: Show that you know what you are doing. Be decisive. Don’t give her the “as you wish dear” line.
• Don’t care about what she thinks of you: Remember that your job is to ATTRACT her, not to PLEASE her.
• Learn The Dating Game: If you were a woman.. would you want to go out with this inexperienced guy or would you like to hang out with the type of guy who knows how to treat you right?

Hope this will work out for you guys!!

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is.From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then. What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself. Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D

I was in my friend’s car over the weekend cruising around town. One thing that I noticed was how messy his car was. My girlfriend sure as hell didn’t like it and I think most girls wouldn’t either.

If you notice…. most single/ divorced men have some of the dirtiest, messiest, smelliest cars in the world. So what you say?Well.. we’d be pretty much depriving ourselves of a second or third date!!!!

Women generally like cleanliness even if they are darn filty and more often than not… they’ll judge how clean you are from your first date. If you have one dirty ride with you… they’ll probably feel you are this totally disorganised guy. God knows what else they will think.

I remember my car used to have some ‘not so decent’ DVDs in it and one of the girls I took out on a date found it. Of course she thought I was some naughty cow. She still brings it up today. I managed to kick it off with her though. *GRIN*

So remember guys… clean up your car a little before you take a woman out. Ain’t going to go into details. I am sure you guys are very well capable of it. Keep only the cool stuff in like your branded shades or your coat hanged neatly and put the rest away. Putting it in the glove compartment doesn’t count. Who knows… you might just get a nosey one in your car right?

Get an air-freshener. You wouldn’t want your car to stink would you? I know my current girl hates a car that STINKS! Personally… so do I. That’s it for now. Go pimp your rides guys!

(Picture courtousy of Boreme.com)

I think no girl.. and I mean NO girl is going to admit this but it’s true!! They love men when they are in control.Not suggesting you guys turn into a control freak… just don’t act like a wimp.

“Where should we sit?”.. “Up to you”… “You choose”. So NOT cool.

I think this would work out better:

“Let’s sit over there” “It seems pretty comfy”…and just lead her by taking her hand.

I used to try to be the all obliging ‘Yes Mam’ kind of guy. It didn’t necessarily work out. You can still be Mr nice Guy. Just be assertive and take the lead.

Good luck guys!!

I am no dating consultant/ expert. I have failed before in the past with girls. So I know how painful it is.From then on I learnt to take on a different approach and my success rate with girls have increased tremendously then.What I share here is not from some text book but from both experiences of my friends and myself.Hope these entries can help you guys out. Good luck! ; D